Friday, March 20, 2009

Anna Nalick:  "Breaking the Girl"

I really shouldn't listen to such depressing music.  Kat said I was totally emo.  It's partially true.  I'm in the middle of crashing right now.  Lisa and Kat left late last night.  I slept for hours and hours and hours, with more dreams about Gen.  I spoke to Suzanne M. about it last week, after I had a pseudo-freak out.  She says that it's been a really long time since Gen and I broke up and she doesn't understand why I'm still like this.  She thinks I might not actually be trying to let it go.  I believe that there is a part of me that isn't letting it go.  Mostly, my emotional side.  My logical side has done everything it's supposed to do.  We don't talk.  I keep very few reminders of her around me.  But, really, almost everything reminds me of her.  So, short of active non-thinking, I'm pretty much fucked.  My sister says that if I still feel this way after so much time, then maybe I really shouldn't let it go.  But, she admits she doesn't really know what to do, either.  She says that I'm a lot like my father.  And, I realize that I am, except that I am willing to kill myself to do what is I think is right.

Overall, it's still on my mind.  Dreaming about it constantly doesn't help things either.  Having her comment on Kat's facebook doesn't help.  I want something that is mine and that isn't tainted by this.

Sean has been talking to Mike and Ally a lot, lately.  Or maybe, I've just been more aware of it.  Still, it's something always on my mind.  And, I added Suzanne to my buddy list again.  So, really, sometimes I just torture myself for the fun of it.  I'm so needy.  I've been thinking about going to therapy, lately, too.  Maybe just have someone to talk to.  Mostly, I don't have anyone to really talk to about all of this.  Most of my friends I no longer talk to, and the few left that I do have I don't fully trust.  If it weren't for this crippling weakness, I'd be fully self-sufficient.

Alright, I'm still in bed.  Most likely not moving anytime soon.

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